Styx lion cubs sleeping by Andrew Batchelor
I can not stress enough the major role and importance of a good night sleep.
If you can change only one thing about your life or your children’s’ life, let it be your sleeping habits.
Once you do, you will notice the major impact it has on you life. On every aspect of it.
1. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. Or at least around the same time. Even on weekends.
It ìs very important for your health (both the mental and the physical).
2. If you have slept late for quite a while, reverse this unhealthy habit gradually. Go to bed 15 minutes earlier than the day before each night. Turn on your alarm so you don’t forget. Have a reminder an hour before the alarm, so you will make it easier for yourself to comply with it.
If you miss a day or more, don’t be harsh on yourself. Just be consistent and get back on track to happier life.
Keep going to bed 15 minutes earlier till you reach your favourable bedtime.
3. Remember. Wake up in the same time everyday. If you’re used to waking up late, turn the alarm to 15 minutes earlier each day, till you reach your ideal waking hour. If you don’t know what it is, make it 8 o’clock. The earlier the better. Even if you aren’t a ‘morning person’. You will have more time for yourself and you can use it to relax, have a nice lengthy breakfast, exercise lightly or just plan and visualize your day. All those activities carry their benefits and have great impact on your whole day.
And most important of all, that keeps you in charge of your day, your week, ect., and hence, your life. And getting control back, decreases depression and feelings of incompetence and is very valuable by itself.
4. Avoid caffeine, sugars, fried, spicy and all kinds of stimulating foods at least eight hours.
5. Have water beside your bed so when Y get thirsty all you have to do is reach out for it.
6. Take Magnesium an hour before your bedtime.Among it’s other benefits, It relaxes your muscles and helps you sleep better. For better absorption, take it along with the vitamins C, B6 and E. (unless you’re a month before surgery and if so, omit E, since it dilutes the blood).
7. Avoid consuming caffeine, chocolate/cocoa, wine, black/green tea, sugar, spicy food, aged cheese and any stimlating food/beverage at least 5 hours before your bedtime.
8.Have a relaxing evening routine. Avoid stimulating activities/foods. Listen to natural sounds/relaxing music/music you have good memories of. Read a nice old fashioned classic book.
9.Finish dinner 3 hours before you go to bed. Drink water/caffeine free herb tea (chamomile or melissa = lemon balm is great). Eat vegetables after dinner if you need a snack. Prepare them in advance.
10.In bed, think of at least 3 good things that you have accomplished today. Even the slightest one counts. Even just putting something in it’s place or doing one push up or getting one tiny thing done. Indulge in the most simple joy. Make it a habit. Forgive yourself and move on. Promise yourself to take care of one thing tat worries you tomorrow or at a certain date and time. It will help your subconscious let go of worrying about it.
None of the above replaces consulting with your physician. All is derived of my own personal experience and if you have any doubts as to whether it’s good for you, consult your physician.